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writes:i was in a serious relationship of 6years with the father of my 2year old son then he decided to just move on with his life because i did not agree to move in with him and he knows that im a christian i cannot live with him because we not married.now my problem is im scared to date again.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (21 December 2009):
If your Christianity stopped you moving in with him then how come you had sex and a child outside marriage? Were you holding out to make him propose? It would have worked better to move in first then when he is used to your love and care you push for the marriage gently.
Anyway, start dating slowly just to see what's out there. Don't get into a serious relationship right away. Just do drinks, coffees, lunches, even dinners. Then you will gain confidence to move on.
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reader, Angzw +, writes (21 December 2009):
If your Christianity stopped you moving in with him then how come you had sex and a child outside marriage? Were you holding out to make him propose? It would have worked better to move in first then when he is used to your love and care you push for the marriage gently.
Anyway, start dating slowly just to see what's out there. Don't get into a serious relationship right away. Just do drinks, coffees, lunches, even dinners. Then you will gain confidence to move on.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 hmm you had sex and a child out of wedlock and your worried about moving in with the babies father well im a chrisitan to and that was pretty stupid. your allready sleepng with him who cares if you live with him being a christian doesnt mean you have to be perfect find some where in a bible that says you cant live with a guy well it mite say it i dont kno i fall asleep somewhere around the book of Daniel the thing is your piking and choosing witch part of the christian beliefs to adhere to you probably shouldnt be doing alot of stuff your doing i think Jesus can forgive you for moving in wth the father of your child.
As for dating some one else hmm hows the weather in SA this time of year oh ok im jokin, look maybe you shouldnt rush into it honestly maybe read the entire Bible for some good advice on that you kno i really like your flag its got that YMCA thing going on
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