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writes:i met a guy a couple of days ago. hes awesome hes the type i go for. im 22 i dnt like dating younger guys my age because i dont find them in my level. so therefore i always go for older guys. so about this guy i met he 55 years old and hes a doctor with three kids one older then me. im really scared what people will say about me and that i wont fit in his circle of high class friends. but i really like him.what should i do. ps. i dnt need anyone judging me about what i like.i need opinions Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you rainorfire!!
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (21 December 2009):
 Being that you only met him a few days ago, you are jumping the gun even worrying about all of these things. You're not in a relationship with him yet, so slow your roll a bit and find out if he's even interested in you.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (21 December 2009):
 well good luck your not stupid you seem like you know what you want and i hope things work out well for you. we cant help who we like and if they like us back its a blessing maybe this is yours
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to both of you guys. i see your points. but we did have great conversations, have a lot in common. he didnt even tell me he was a doctor until the end of the night, he wanted to see if we were comfortable and had chemistry. wich we did.
by the way i am very mature for my age and i cant see my self with young boys,i've always liked older guys and feel more comfortable with them. i dnt know why, wich sometimes makes me feel like im stupid, and people look at me like a goldigger wich im not because i have my own career.I DNT know if thats wrong the way i see things..
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (21 December 2009):
theres always haters if you like this guy then so be it but what do you expect to come out of this relation ship. Hes to old for you Im saying that so later i can say i told you so.If you want to just have a fling fine but dont read to mutch into this relation ship sounds like your just happy to have this wealthy sophisticated doctor fawning over you its just not gonna turn out as nice as your probably hoping.
youll be just getting into your career when hes retiring, every phase of life you start entering he will have done two decades ago he will be having grand chilldren when you have your first child, see where im going
Im not judging you im warning you this thing should just be temporary I think you should stick it out for awhile let him spend money on you inroduce you to his elite society and just ride the wave but dont fall in the ocean thinking your gonna be happily ever after.
As for fitting in with the elite crowd dont worry they have their own little issues.
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