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*adee
writes:i loved my girl friend very much from last 6 years, but due to my family problem, i married other girl.still me and my girlfriend love each other. i also loved my wife. suddenly my girl friends mother khows our physical relationship, so they are trying to marry her with anyone. she and i depressed, we cant seperate from each other.please help us.
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reader, lovelife1437  +, writes (21 December 2009):
Since you're married then you need to let your girlfriend move on. Hopefully your girlfriend's mother won't force her into a relationship like you did yourself but give her the option to choose her mate. If you truly love your girlfriend then you need to let her go because it's not fair to her that you have a wife and wants her too. You're married regardless if you didn't do it by choice. You have separated from your girlfriend when you went and got married apparently it doesn't seem like you're aware of the separation which is very unhealthy. If you're still with your girlfriend then you're being unfaithful to your wife. What if your wife is doing the same thing as you then wouldn't you be hurt. 2+1=0
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reader, ShadowGoddess231 +, writes (21 December 2009):
 So your family married you off to some other girl and yet you had a girl friend already something like that? You "loved" your wife, so in other words you don't love her anymore? I'm very confused here. If that is the case, well you can go with A) cheating on your uses to be loved wife, or B) divorce your wife and marry your girl friend. So, if you really want to be happy and all you get away from your wife with legal methods and marry your girl friend, and I don't know what it is with families trying to marry their kids off to other families...
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reader, gummybear1011 +, writes (21 December 2009):
Then you shouldn't have gotten married, I don't understand what " family problem" would force a person into marriage . I refuse to have any sympathy for you or your girlfriend when you have a wife that should be the sole recipient of your devotion. You are just like many men that are enthralled with the idea of a secret relationship. Sure there may be feelings between the two of you but you know what; you shouldn't have gone through with a marriage if you were in a relationship with two people. You want my advice? Tell your wife about the affair ( if she doesn't already know) Hopefully she'll ask for a divorce and you can have your girlfriend. You can't have your cake and eat it too, your wife does not deserve to be cheated on.
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