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writes:You might think this is stupid because alot of people say young people dont know what love is but im 16 and split up with my boyfriend around 2 months ago, we were together for about a year and a half and he broke up with me, and I cant get over him. We are still friends but I know he doesnt like me in a way more than that anymore but im still in love with him so much. I think about him constantly and he knows how I feel, I cry most nights and I cant see myself getting over him. I hate it as im always upset, its even lead to self harming and i often think i dont want to live feeling like this anymore, I want him back so much.It doesnt make it easier that hes seeing another girl and has totally replaced me. I dont want anyone but him justnow but I dont want to feel like this anymore.help would be appreciated if possible? thanks.
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reader, sgarcia09  +, writes (21 December 2009):
Trust me i know how you feel! What you are feeling is completely normal it takes time to heal. Start doing things to take your mind off of him. Even if you don't feel like it go hang out with friends, exercise, and do other things that can make you happy. He might still be constantly in your mind but eventually it will fade. I know right now it probably doesnt feel like it but you will find someone else.
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reader, doom  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 hi, sorry for your situation, love exists at all ages, but we can interpratate it diferently.In your case in my oppinion you should fight by your own, try thinking that he was to stupid and didn't see the nice girl you are, so you have to move on!! it is difficult, but try one thing, don't show it to others!!! I think you should stop seeing each others as friends, that is the reason why you are hurt, and you can't move on!! imagine that one day, you are positive and you walk around the mall, and you see him and you say just "hi" and then you walk awxya, after that i'm sur he will text and call you regularly!!! don't chase him...believe me, .good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): The best way to getting over being replaced is becoming the best person you can be- the best version of yourself- and still strive to surround yourself with people better than you with whom you can grow and learn. Surround yourself with energy and creativity. Inspiration and beauty is everywhere- in art, literature, sports, travel, photography, and friendship. Find it and let it color over the morbidity of the past.
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