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*garcia09
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and have a pretty good relationship. Until the last month we had a great sex life but about a month ago we were having sex and all of the sudden he went completely limp inside of me and then he told me it was because he had already came a little but there was no cum in the condom. Then the same thing happened like a week later. Then today we were having sex and i could feel his penis go limp inside of me and then he pretended to orgasm. After i tried talking to him about it and he told me it was becuase we had sex last night and that he did orgasm and just not ejaculated. I know this is a lie because we use to be able to go three or four times a day and he would cum each time. What could be the problem? I know its not another girl but i wonder if it could be he is not attracted to me or something else... Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): .. Lately, My partner has been doing the same thing..
He'll be going strong for a while, but as soon as i say anything along the lines of 'im coming' .. His thrusts go a bit unco then he sort of goes a bit limp.. But if i stay quiet for a couple of seconds, he goes back to normal...
Maybe your partner is uncomfortable with his performance?? I think my man has performance anxiety.. Sooo... I've learnt to stay quiet! Lol!
Or he might have erectile problems and is too embarrassed to say.. And if hes intoxicated, that has a lot to do with it too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): This has happened to me before. If I masturbate too soon before having sex (within 12-18 hours) it is harder for me to keep an erection. I'm 35, so it might not need to be so long for someone younger. I don't know if you talk to your man about masturbation but it might be something worth asking him about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): This is quite a common problem and it sounds like he is trying to cover it up out of embarrassment so try and be patient with him and don't put any pressure on him. If it continues maybe he could get checked out by a doctor in case there is some physical cause.
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reader, Q-anon  +, writes (21 December 2009):
I would assume that he's stressed out about something. Is there anything trouble-some going on his life right now?
If not, maybe he's not completely satisfied with sex? Maybe he's been taking it into his own hands with porn and he's having a better time on his own? Sad, but sometimes a possibility.. Good luck.
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