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writes:so my boyfriend and i are packing to move out of his old house..sounds good so far right? and we are moving to florida..sounds even better huh? well while in the process of packing today i watched him pack pictures of his exgirlfriend of 5 years who he, even after 5 years, is still madly in love with..hes 26 years old..what should i do? i dont want materialistic memories of that girl floating around MY house..but im also not controlling or bitchy..im truly jealous that she still has that piece of his heart after all this time when thats what ive been working to get..what should i do? should i get rid of them later and play dumb when he realizes theyre missing? or am i over reacting? recently he added her on facebook too which bothered me as well..i just am totally lost here and need someones help and some advice..thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): Seeing the pictures isnt nice but he is with you now. Be grateful that he had this girl in his life and come to terms with it, as that has played a big part in making him into the guy you love. (easy to say I know!)
Good luck with your move. xx
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reader, doom  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 So that's good for you :) just tel him you don't like those pictures,he'll understand.Pictures doens't meen he loves her, just memorie.:)good luck
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reader, 78ta09 +, writes (22 December 2009):
78ta09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question there was one answer on here that was helpful..thanks man:) i dont plan on leaving him.thank you.and he does love me and wants to be with me..im not going to leave him over a box of pictures..thanks though
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reader, doom +, writes (21 December 2009):
hi, well this is really unpleasent reaction...but don't worry be more strong then you are talk to him, put him some conditions...i know my gf did that and it worked.If he does such things with you, mouving to florida,you in the same house together....tha tmeans he likes, and loves you. Try fighting not with her but with him.Hope i've helped good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 December 2009):
If he still loves her, he doesn't love you. You're not overreacting. In fact you're under-reacting. He still loves her. That means perhaps he is not the guy for you. The heart can only love one. Seriously think about whether you want to be second best for the rest of your life, or whether you;d be better moving on now before you get even more hurt.
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