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writes: Me and my boyfriend were dating for about 3 months and things were going great like we never got into one fight or anything. But about a week ago i hear things going around that he wants to break up with me and im so upset because i dont understand why. Well he left school early that day so i texted him and asked him if it was true and he never replied to me. The day went by and he still hadn't called/texted me so the next morning i broke up with him cause i couldnt handle the pain anymore. Then later his ex sent me a message telling me that he cheated on me with her when we dated and that he lied to me about everything. Well i wasn't sure to believe her or not cause she had already started drama with me alot before, blamming me for the reason her and him broke up. And they dated for a year and 3 months so i decided to ask him just to be sure. When i asked him to told me that he didnt cheat but that he did talk to her every now and then. But now we are closer than ever and we still hang out and he tells me that he wants to get back together and that he doesnt talk to her anymore and all of this stuff. I honestly believe him and trust him with all of my heart, should i go back to him?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 December 2009):
You'll find his ex has caused some trouble here. She clearly isn't over him. I think on this occasion you can afford to give him a second chance, since you are closer and he has said he's cut contact. Take it slow though. And if he ever hurts you again, get rid of him permanently.
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