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writes:Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for like a month now and he says that he loves me every time we get off the phone and whenever we talk, but im not sure he really means it cause well I don't think anybody could have the same feelings for him as I do and I truly love him and it's funny cause we argue about who loves who more and we always end up saying that we love each other the same, but over all I really do love him and I don't know if he truly feels the same way.. Can anybody help me with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): um honestly i think your too young to truly love someone.when i was your age i used to say i was in love like everytime i liked someone alot but trust me you most likely wont fall in true love until your older. guys say i love you at that age usually as a force kind of, thats what everyone says. half the time they might think they do but turns out they dont you know what i mean? also, its only been a month you cant expect him to be madly in love with you yet. if i were you id try my hardest not to get attached because your going to wind up heart broken, guys at that age only think about one thing.. SEX. so whatever you do do NOT lose your virginity to him. boys at that age are too immature for serious relationships so if thats what your looking for i'd advice you to go for older guys lol i dont know if this will help but yeah (: good luck
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 We can't really measure something as subjective as another persons feelings. We can try to comprehend, but we cant ever actually experience what another is feeling to truly know.
I think it may be a case of actions speaking louder than words - and it is in tangible expressions/actions that we might best guage where we are ranking with another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): Give it time... TIME will tell...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): I think at your age, what you see as love is different to those older then you. It sounds like you have fallen for this boy quite quickly. You dont need to be worring about who loves who more, just enjoy your relationship with him and remember he is your boyfriend, this shows he is attracted to you and wants to be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): Well there is no true way to find out if he means it the same way you do. But since yall have only been dating for about a month just give it some time and you will know for sure i promise, every relationship takes time. Right now he's just excited that yall are together and happy how things are; and if he treats you well and would do anything for you then yes he does love you the same way.
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