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writes:I have a boyfriend that lives in palmdale and I live in south central and I have a feeling that he might cheat on me or scared that he will leave me we got together febuary 2008 and broke up april 2008 and now we got back together on october 2008 and I really really love him and I guess im scared 2 lose him again and a lot of females think he's cute cuz of his eyes and his body how would I know if he really like me? And how would I know if he isn't cheating on me? What can I do so that he won't feel lonly and go look 4 another female?
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reader, Jack_McVeigh  +, writes (9 October 2008):
 ok darling dont worry! ok i am gay and i live in johannesburg, south africa, and my boyfriend lives in nottingham, england. we are movingin together in feburary 2009 and yeah i probably wont see him until then. i love him and therefore i trust him that he isnt doing anything behind my back. i mean even if he is and i dont know about it.. than it is on his conchonse and no body elses. trust him that he isnt doing anything. if he loves you like he says he does.. then you should have no reason not to trust him. i mean trust is one of the main foundations of love. x Jack P McVeigh
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reader, X HONESTY X  +, writes (9 October 2008):
well first of all hunny i know where you are coming from as i was once in the same situation and being insecure is not a nice feeling at all.
I know you are paranoid by the distance but i will say to you that you and only you knows if he loves you and you know it in your heart so that alone should make you feel good.
i would say that you have to trust this guy as you will only push him further and further away when there is no need.
Please try your best to concentrate on the positives instead of the negatives in your relationship and that should make you feel alot better within yourself and also make your partner feel more secure about your feelings toward him as im guessing that he will sense that something is wrong?
i hope my advice has brought you some use or comfort as i am new to this.
good luck hunny and im here if you need more x
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