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writes:Me and A boy at school like eachother. He's really shy. and In school its usually me who makes the convosation and he just says he's bored. and On msn he said it was rubbish. when im there trying to make convosation. in school he says hes bored and i try and make convosation and Im sick of making the effort all the time and he is just miserable. Also a girl who has a boyfriend in another school keeps flirting and is always with him. he tells me he doesn't fancy her. but she tries to hold his hand. he said he pushed her away. Today i saw them both messin round with eachother. Me and him have held hands and hugged before he says he really likes me. But he doesn't act that way in person. I dont know what to do. he says if he dint have me his life would be sh*t. and Mine would be 2 if i didnt have him. He is really confusing. He says he doesn't wanna hold my hand in school incase people see. But he turned it down when we was somewhere private.He said he wouldn't turn me down if i did it. But he did. So now im scared ever to do it again. What should I do? I really like him. and Supposably he feels the same
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reader, iwillhelpyouthroughit +, writes (9 October 2008):
 I would talk to him about it. I know you dont want to lose him, i've been in that position exactly, but if he's not pulling his weight and keeps turning you down you should really talk to him, people often say things they dont mean on msn, so i would do it in real life if you can.
Just be brave, be positive and go for it, ask him what he really thinks and what he wants to do about your relationship, and as for this other girl, ignore her, your probably much prettier and nicer than he anyways so stop worrying babe! If she's flirting with other boys whilst she's got a boyfriend she musnt be very nice.
Go for it chick, and always remember that it's not the end of the world if things dont work out! In tiem things will get better i promise and you'll find somebody else, if not this boy to make you happy (:
xxx
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