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writes:I'm doing my A-levels at the moment and I have 7 months to finish them, but I'm also engaged to the most amazing person in the whole world, I love him to bits and he loves me too but recently he had to move another country for personal reasons and has to wait for 6 months for things to get sorted out over here in order to come back but things may never get sorted and he may not be able to come back, but I'm in London and I have not seen him for nearly 2 months.I miss him so much and I've been really really depressed since he left and I just don't want to do anything, I feel like life is pointless, my mum tells me to carry on with education and keep visiting him whenever I'm on holidays such as xmas easter etc... but I can't, I'm going crazy, all I think about is him. We've been together for 4 years and whenever I speak to him on the phone I can't help but cry, I just can't be without him, so my dilemma is do I leave everything and go and be with him? He promises to look after me as long as he lives (this is what I really want and will do) or do I stay on education and be misrable?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice and its what everyone else has been telling me to do aswell, i know im going to sound naive but i think im prepared to drop everything for him because it feels so right and im 10000000000% sure he loves me as we've been together for so long so i know this is the right decision, He has done so much for me in the past i dont think i can ever repay him but i think im going to do this one thing to show him how much he means to me. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): I'm really sorry about your situation ; what a bummer! Deep down, I think you know the right answer. Although it hurts, you should finish your education. It is extremely important, and although you are so depressed about missing your fiancee, you should try to focus.It must be so hard, I can't even begin to imagine. Try your best to keep it up, keep your head up and think of when he'll be back. Maybe go over and visit him? Keep as much in contact as you can, and try not to be too depressed. Hope this helps, best wishes for the futurex
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