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writes:hey everyone i really need some advice quick... tonight my parents and everyone went out and i was ;eft home alone... so i decided to call my boyfriend round and spend the time with him... i asked my sister to call me as soon as they left so i could send him home however she forgot to do that leaving me getting caught... luckly we wernt doing anything just sittin in the kitchen eating as they walked in... i was soo scard i just started chatting shit saying he was in the area and poped dwn... my parents seemed fine about it and were talking to him as normal but i could just see the disappointment in their faces... im soo sad and feel soo bad about what happned... atm they have all gone sleep and i havent had a chance to explain or say anything but i know 2mrw morning they will question me... what do i say and how to i cover up the fact that nothing happened... THEY DONT KNOW I HAVE A BOYFRIEND... and in the house i am the perfect child who can do no wrong... i dont want that ideology to change please help Reply to this Question
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reader, michelleAKAmandi  +, writes (9 October 2008):
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First of all, if you DID nothing wrong, there is nothing to cover up.
They may give you a talk of how you shouldn't have had him there in the home, but having him as a friend IS fine.
Sorry for my errors/typos I'm extremely tired, but not able to sleep tonight, so I'm here.
Again, good luck!!
Michelle
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (9 October 2008):
First of all, if you didn't nothing wrong, there is nothing to cover up. Let them know that you two are just friends and if you would have thought they would have minded, you wouldn't have had him stay when he "popped down".
Sweetie, you are 18 or older, why can't you open up to your parents about a boyfriend. It is VERY normal for you to have a boyfriend at that age. Not saying open up about it NOW, because of your situation and I know you don't want them to know, but you may want to give some thought to this in the near future.
Let your parents know that you didn't mean to disappoint them and that you weren't thinking clearly. They may give you a talk of how you shouldn't have had him there in the home, but having him as a friend was fine.
I sure hope this helps...
Good luck sweetie
Michelle
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reader, Anonyman +, writes (9 October 2008):
 Everyone has to grow up. It's normal for teenagers to have girlfriends/boyfriends from 13 to 14 onwards. It dosen't mean that you are doing anything wrong and your parents should understand that. You're over 18 right? Then you are an adult and you're more than qualified to be in a relationship. If they ask anything just be calm and explain to them that you really like this guy. You don't have to tell them everything like when you snogged him etc, they don't need to know that. Just say that you enjoy spending time with him and he makes you happy.
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