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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Help..recently i met this lad i really like, he has took me on 3 dates now, and he seems really keen, he txts everyday and phones me evrynight since we met, he always compliments me ,saying im gorgeous and funny etc. and its really nice, evrytime i see him i like him that little bit more. But.. last night we were talkin on the computer and he asked me if he could ask me a question.. he then said " are we just mates?" i replied and answered " dunno wat do u think" then he put " up to you" then i said i would like to be more than mates. and then to he replied " well i would like to keep seeing you, but i dont want a relationship, i rele like u tho"...the impression i got was that he did want a realtionship, and that is what i want. i really dont know what to do as i want to keep seeing him, but evrytime i see him i like him more and im scared ill fall in love and get hurt, as i want a relationship and he doesnt.. this is so difficult, any one any ideas??? or help??? why all the phones calls, txts and dates if he doesnt want it to go anywhere im so confused xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): I totally agreed to the previous answer.
If he shows no interest in a relationship, it is wise to keep a distance. That is to prevent yourself get hurt in the future when things go wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): If he doesn't want a relationship...then move foward to someone who will appreciate you more and want to relationship with you....and if you want to continue being mates with him...then continue with that but no sex..and no feelings attached until he's ready to commit to you.(:
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