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writes:Its been a month sine I got drunk and called my best friend and told her that I am in love with her and asked her if she remembers or thinks about when we kissed. She said that she remembers it happening but she does not think about it..She said that I was out of control (which I realize I was) and that she needed space because she could not handle this emotionally.. We were so close before that and we called each other loving names like babe,sweety and so on, and we called eachother soulmates.She even introduced me to her friends as her soulmate. She was the best friend I ever had. We flirted and became so closed one night we made out (no sex). So we never talked about it yet I told her various time that I loved her and she would say things like when was the 2nd time we kissed and we kida joked about it..So of course with all this I thought she also had feelings and Im not too sure if she is telling me the truth..Since both times she kissed me first.One day we hugged and I touched the side of her face and said "Ilove you" and we were so close almost kissed but I stopped myself. Now we dont talk and she said she feels akward and threatened..Ive send her a card and a letter and she hasnt responded.The space of time she asked for I ok with it but drives me crazy to wait and I miss her dearly..Should I keep waiting? Move on? Contact her once more in a few months? I dont know since I feel bad and heartbroken that I hurt the one I love most.Would love some feedback..Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did call her and left her a message a few minutes ago. I dont know if she will respond. I somewhow feel she is embarased about what happened between us and wants to make believe it didnt happen.Maybe doesnt know what to say and its easier not to communicate.I think is cowardly not to face the problems in any kind of relationship.Im upset over it. I would love her to be in my life..If she tells me she will not continue with the relationship it will be ok but hard for me but Ill move on and get other friends..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): I think the not knowing is the worst torture. If I were you I would call her and tell her that you need a clear answer on whether she has those kinds of feelings for you. If she says no then move on. You have to. Just give up on it. The adjectives "awkward" and "threatened" are definitely not a good sign. Just demand a definite answer and don't let her not give one. Stringing you along is a terrible thing to do, and trust me, she knows what her answer is. So if she says no or tries to get out of answering, MOVE ON. If she says yes, well, congratulations.
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