A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello :)Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year now. She's completely in love with me and i used to be so in love with her but everything's changed.Last year we had the same friends and she lived close to me so i could go out with friends and have a good time as well as be with her. This year she goes to a different college to me but is still in the same town and lives miles away.I see her mostly every night as i get down on my scooter but it's just getting harder.She doesn't feel welcome with my friends and gets funny when I spend time with them instead of her.This year i've hardly spent any time with my friends and i've just been with her.I don't know what to do. Having a girlfriend should be a good thing but it feels like a chore. It's come to the point when i've lied just to have some time alone.She's an amazing girl but its just getting to hard.What should i do?Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): I really think shes insecure and she thinks if you're going to be with your friends you're going to be chatting up other girls, i dont think she knows how much you love her so in her mind she thinks that you would rather be with your friends than her, i would talk to her and let her know how you feel and tell her you love her etc etc...i did the same thing to my boyfriend and he told me how much he loved me and i had nothing to worry about, now im fine with it...hope it helps
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