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writes:Recently ive been thinking of my ex bf ive not spoke or seen him since we split at the start of december last year,we where not together that long and he called it off,he was also my first bf.The thing is its getting worse like thinking of him more often then i thought i would i did not think it was that serious.now i want him back but not sure how to get him back,ive still got his number but dont want to ring or txt as he may not answer,and not sure if hes found anyone else,hes very experienced and a lot older then me, whats alos making it worse is his mates still go to the place where i meet him and always stare and look like there talking about me.Any help very appreciated.thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): Sometimes when we look back, people and things seem better than they really were.
He must have had his reasons for calling it off. You may want to think about those.
It is hard, being the one who is left, especially as he was your first boyfriend.
Ask yourself how you would feel if you texted and he did not answer. If you feel you could cope, then do it.
If he doesn't answer, at least you know where you are. Find things to do to take your mind off him. There will be someone else in the future.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 well maybe the reason why you are thinkin about him in this way is because he was your first boyf and you really liked the thought of being in a relationship.because he was your only bf you only have him to think of in that way and that might be it. the other thing is that if it finished in dec, maybe he is over it??sorry to sound harsh but that may be the case. why not just drop him a casual txt seein how he is, how his christmas went etc??that way there is no romantic implications and it is a conversation starter, if he replies, it should be easy enough to tell whether or not he still wants you. i hope this helps hun , email me if you want to talk
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