A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs on and off. I love him with all my heart and he means alot to me. The longest we've ever been apart has been one month, within that month I was dating another guy. The reason for our break up was because i found out he was messing around with one of my friends friend. A while after we got back together, in a heated argument he screamed out to me that he slept with her. Later when we were on good terms he told me it was a lie and he just said it to hurt me. I decided to forget about what he told me because it happened in the past . Well the other night we got into it again and I told him that I slept with the guy I dated for a month. Well he flipped out called me dirty and told me that I'm just an average B and he needs to be with someone better. Although I told him many times that I didn't sleep with the other guy.... He doesn't want anything to do with me ...... What do I do??
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reader, O Connor +, writes (16 January 2008):
your relationship is over - the 2 of you are lying to eachother, being with other ppl and using it as fuel for a fight!! he's an ass for reacting like that, leave him and move on, he's not worth it.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (16 January 2008):
I think your relationship with him has run it's course. By what you said it probably should have ended a while back. Not saying that you two wont ever get together again, but truth is truth. You are young and it's ok to move on. Keep in touch with him on a friendly basis, but go out with other guys. After a long while when you guys both mature and get your lives on track and you still want to, you guys give it another shot.
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