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30-35,
*cythe
writes:I've found that whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. I went on a second date with a guy I am attracted to, and when we were kissing, I didn't feel turned on or feel any pleasure. Is this normal? Is kissing meant to feel good? I've kissed three guys before and it has been exactly the same... is there something wrong with me? Is there anyone else in the same situation as me? How can I change what I feel when I am kissing someone?Any help or comments will be appreciated.
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reader, scythe +, writes (1 February 2008):
scythe is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well guys,
I've been going out with him for a month now, and after our third date I actually like kissing. You aunts were all right about having an emotional connection - it makes a huge difference. And limiting the time spent kissing too... over 10mins straight is kinda tiring.
Thanks for the spot-on advice!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (17 January 2008):
My girlfriend has a similar problem though we are still in love.She doesn't enjoy kissing unless we are making love.Weird? I know.
I think you should try getting closer to the person before you start kissing them and not just because you find them attractive.I think it's the emotional attachement that will help you feel more comfortable doing it.Work on da emotional attachement first.
Good luck.
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 Maybe you are just a bit nervous, or the person you were kissing doesn't kiss you the way that you would like! It is much more enjoyable when you feel comfortable with the person you are with.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 When you are in love or romantic, the kiss would be different.You will find the meanings of love and sensual affections .
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reader, living and learning +, writes (17 January 2008):
Kissing is a sensual and meaningful thing for me. When I kiss someone I take my time and I make it memorable.Maybe your kisses are, for a lack of a better phrase, JACKED UP, because there is no meaning behind them. I would suggest waiting to kiss someone until you know you really, really want to. When you know, that you know, that you know it will be explosive.STOP KISSING ALL THOSE FROGS!
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