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51-59,
*umb and twisted
writes:Dear Cupid, My boyfriend is bisexual. Which inst a big deal except he isn't faithful to our relationship. It's happened several times thought 5 years of being together. Every time he promises that he loves me and that it wont happen again. but in between the affairs or afternoon glory holes he's on line looking at men pick up sites, or porn. And when I say porn thats all he looks at when he's on the computer... For hours sometimes days.I'm at my wits end I know he loves me, but that isn't enough.. I'm mentally and emotionally always hurting and feeling betrayed.. please help
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (19 August 2008):
If you had any sense at all, you would end this relationship! Your boyfriend is being a gay man whore at night and holds hand sip lattes with you in the afternoon! The stupid thing is that you know about it and kiss him anyway...knowing he had another man's penis in his mouth. Not to mention you're putting your self in risk of getting STD's!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): Why not leave him & find a normal man who isn't a sex crazed porn/gay addict? I can't see how it's no big deal for your partner to be going to glory holes and having gay sex. You might want to get out of this "relationship" before you contract a disease. He is probably using you because you are a weak person and you'll tolerate this kind of behavior.
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reader, jkobeska +, writes (16 January 2008):
He needs to get help. He has a problem. You can't fix it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 Your b/f needs help. He is addicted and sick and cannot stop looking at porn.
There are two ways to resolve this matter.
1) Ask him to seek counsellings or treatment for his addiction.
2) You need to remove yourself physically from him to make him wake up and change his ways.You need to make him realize that he is destroying your life.When all else fail, this is the only recourse .
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reader, IntoxicatingLastBreath  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 Hmm
To be honest i don't really think you could stop your boyfriend from watching porn
I know you may not like the idea but why not try watching porn with him?
I also know you may not like me asking but do you have sex with him often? Because maybe if you two were more intermate more often then he wouldn't want to go on porn as much?
And i know you can't fulfill his needs that he wants a guy at times..and it may be sickening to you and i'm sorry to sugest it but in my mind there's the idea that you could use a strap on and more manly influences on your sexual life
But you do need to have a propper talk..just let him know HOW much it's affecting you and your relationship..make him see just how much
-Krissy3
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): Just ignore the really awful post from an obvious porn addict. I don't have much to offer except to tell you to go to straightspouse.org.
Please try to focus on yourself and what support you need to get through this.
All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): There is no such thing as love now in the computer age. Love is a myth as you will know how the trends in sex have radically changed by leberation of women from past taboos.Women are always look out on how to seize opportunities to gain more amd more freedom and the Net and DVDs have provided them the touch stone to create waves in sexual gratifications. A friend gave another person a DVD in which sex in family was shown. Brothers slept in the family with each others' wife for a change. The first person told that his wife's mouth watered and she asked if shecould have such sex act. The other person's wife too was so exited that she contacted the other girl. They shared the DVD and became hot. There were scenes of lesbians so these two women practised lesbians. The two men decided to swap spouses to enjoy sex. They went intodifferent rooms and slept with each other's wife. The change resulted in both men giving up chasing other women in workplaces. You know that women are great immitators and innovators. Soon they tokk family's other five women into confidence by showing different poses in sex making. First they became lesbians. Two licking and being licked at thepussies in 69 shape. The men now liked to perform sex by one penetrating cock while another put his erct cock in girl's mouth and yet another let his dic helf by her in her hand. All three felt likeflying in the air. Each woman was thus given sex in threesome acts and they let other women folk in the family watch them. Moms went for different men and so did daughters with cousins. Sex has been made quite safe now and the intimacy created thus in couples flowered in lovemaking on email and more frequent sex exercises. Some men were weak in giving orgazoms to their partners but there was agreement that nobody would comlain and take things in good taste. Other women who got orgazms made their mates deep partners. The weaker menbrought satisfaction to their mates by licking the pussy till they would yell that they have cum. There is nothing like a woman enjoying sex with multiple males and giving sex likewise to those whoseek it from them. Here is my email for desirous women to contact me: [email address blocked]
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (16 January 2008):
 Aww Sweetheart.
Its depends on what you want to count as self worth, but hun from what it seems, if hes cheating and spending time looking at other men and not you, its hurting you and making you feel second best from what it seems.
I think you should find a man who loves you and only you...and doesn't need to look at other men. If he loves you it should only be you he looks at. x
Message me if you want to talk =]
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