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36-40,
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writes:Hey guys. I just have a quick question. I havent had a boyfriend in over a year and i havent been asked for my number from any guy in that space of time either. I think my probalem is that i feel kind of lonely and i just would love to meet a really nice guy. The question might sound stupid but it makes me think there is something wrong with me that i havent had any sort of a relationship with a guy in so long. The last guy i kissed was six months ago and it seems that every guy i meet or like has a girlfriend or esle wants to just mess around all the time. I was thinkin of giving a guy who comes into my workplace my number. I work in a restaurant and i see him every evening. Guys, do you think he would be flattered at this or do you think he'd think it would be wierd? Im not desperate for a relationship or anything but id love to have male contact again if thats what you'd call it. Any help to change how im feeling would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 You work in the restaurant , you should meet alot of blokes.Be friendly and smile always.
To give your number to him when he did not ask from you sounds desperate.If it is a business card, then it is OK.
If there is a lack of male's , then you need to look for another job where there are plenty of male's.
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reader, O Connor +, writes (17 January 2008):
 well i think that before you were to give him your number, i would be sure that there is some attraction from him. if you feel confident, start by talking to him and flirting with him to establish something. as for the lack of male contact, this happens, esp at our age, alot of guys seem to just be out for one thing, and casual fun. but keep the chin up and go out and have fun!!you never know, the next great love could be around the corner, after all i met my boyf on a random girls night out!!hope this helps hun, email me if you want
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