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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and I am begining to worry about our lack of communication. We use to talk everyday but now we rarely talk on the phone. We don't live together and our schedules don't always cordinate but we don't see eachother for a span of about 4 days or so. Should we be communicating daily in order to stay in sync or is this not a big deal? Just curious. Reply to this Question
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 As Laura1318 puts it "it is better to talk for hours on a stretch than to talk 1 hour each day. It becomes a chore and can take away the fun"
You'll both also have a lot more to talk about.
I agree with Annalisa too when she says "a simple text message of 'I miss you' or 'I love you' can have him thinking about you for hours" and is also a lovely way of showing you're thinking about him. Like with the phone calls, I wouldn't do this too often as it then becomes just habit and kind of loses it's meaning. You can also text things like 'I can't wait to see you tomorrow' and mix it up a bit with some silly ones, 'I'm a bit tipsy and thinking of you, hope you're having a good time and can't wait to see you baby (or whatever)' or even just 'x x x'.
Best of luck :)
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reader, living and learning +, writes (17 January 2008):
The big deal is the time that you do have together. Do you make the most of that time? You should. You both have lives outside of each other and dreams and goals that you're trying to achieve.Sounds like the new new has worn off in the relationship. It doesn't me that you're growing apart. When you have your time to yourself put it to good use as he should be doing the same. Achieving your goals and meeting your personal accomplishments helps to make for a well rounded relationship. You both need your own space.Make every moment count when you are together and you wont have any worries.DO YA THANG GIRL!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 It is better to talk for hours on a stretch than to talk 1hour each day.It becomes a chore and can take away the fun.When you think of him , just call him up. Women talk more than men and you will have to initiate more than him.
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