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writes:My Boyfriend and i been together for a year and a half he cheated on me a couple of times when i was pregnant with his child and he lied we broke up then we got back together 3 months ago i told him i was gonna go somewhere but i didn't i came to my friends house now he thinks im cheating on him and i told him that i did go to that one place then he found out that i didn't now he does trust me What should i do?
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reader, empty  +, writes (17 January 2008):
you both should get counciling together, i dont see why everyones first instinct is break up or divorce ESPECIALLY when a child is involved. trust is not given it is earned! i really think you should get help you never know what you might find. i just found out my husband cheated on my after 7 years and 2 kids, because of his childhood he has a sexual addiction. so maybe you should get all the details before you call it quits!best wishes
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 god he cheats on you, you lie to him, where is the trust in this relationship??and you brought a child into this?? get out while you can, or my guess is the lies and mistrust is just going to spiral out of control. neither of you can trust eachother, so wats left?
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reader, CaliGurl +, writes (16 January 2008):
This relationship is so wrapped up in lies and cheating, its going to be very difficult if even possible to get both him and yourself past any paranoia. Can you fully trust him? If anything you're the one who should be having problems trusting him since he's cheated on you mutiple times. He obviously cannot fully trust you until he can trust himself first! So I don't really think that fixing this one incident of him not believing you is going to make the situation better, you two should really talk this over to deal with the trust issues overall. After all, you don't want to live a life full of suspicion.
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