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writes:I've been out of the dating scene a while, I work at a pub and have developed a friendship with one of the locals who is a regular (same age as me).We've been very chatty and friendly for about 5 months, we swapped numbers a while back and he's become quite a good friend. There was always an attraction, a spark between us, but because I was getting over a relationship, I wanted to hold back a bit.I gave him a lift home the other night and he invited me in for a coffee. We ended up kissing, and I really like him. He's told me he really likes me too.As I said, I've been out of the dating scene a while, how do I play this? I won't jump into bed with him, I'm not like that, I do want to wait, but I would appreciate some advice!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 Sounds like you are doing pretty well as it is. The fact that he didnt try and jump all over you when you went into his house demonstrates he has a lot of respect for you.
The only thing I would suggest is that you let him know you really like him too. Otherwise we might just get a post from him on this site saying : " I really like this girl, we've kissed, but she hasn't said she likes me, do we have a future?"
From what you've said it looks like you guys have got it sussed anyway. I hope some of the girls who jump into bed with these creeps on the first date and then get dumped read your post and see the value of getting to know your guy as a friend first.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 he likes you, you like him - first step over with!! dating is like riding a bike - once you have done it you never lose the touch!! just let him know that while you really like him, you wanna take things a little slow as you havent done this in a while. as for the sex - everything will just come to you, you will know wen the time is right, so there is no need to stress out about it - it will just happen!! so just try and enjoy this new date for the moment and not worry about wat to do etc. i hope this helps?? if you need any more help just email me xx
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