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36-40,
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writes:hi i have recently started seeing a girl who has a baby, but still lives with the babies dad,even though they are not going out anmore he wont leave (her house) and is controlling and very possessive of her, she told me today that she is afraid that he wil hurt her abd that he can be violent. have told her that i am here for her and will protect her if neccessary but i do not know what to do about the whole situation he wont let go of her and doesnt believe her that she doesnt love him, what should we do?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 for both of your safety you need to act fast, this guy seems unstable and is just a n attack waiting to happen. she needs to move out and cut him from her life, and possibly get a restraining order from him. why dont you let her move in with you? she is in a dangerous situation and you may need to even contact the police. laura1318 is right, she should move somewhere unknown to him and sell the house.
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reader, tha Aman  +, writes (16 January 2008):
she needs to get away since she is a statistic waiting to happen.violent people never change.contact your local women & child abuse center for her to be taken to & the most important thing for her now is to leave this guy
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 For her safety, she should move out to a secret location unknown to that man . She could also get a court order to evict that men from her house.
The safest way is to sell that house and move away to another place.
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