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writes:Me and this girl feel deeply in love about a year ago. we spent every waking moment together and she told me i was the one and that she had never found a guy like me. She was haveing problems with school and and her family and i was always their for her. I did everything for this girl and we were madly in love. we had our problems but we always worked through them. In May she went over seas for a trip and i stayed and worked in the states. I week after she got back she was acting weird around me and broke up with me a week later. After the break up she told me she just wanted to be friends while she gets her life together. But she told me she still loved me and thought i could be the one she would marry one day she would call me and text me all the time. Then she started hanging out with this other guy that she had known for a while he has a lot of money and would take her everywhere while im still trying to make somthing out of myself. They ended hooking up but she told me everything and said she only did it because she thought i was hooking up with this other girl. She never stopped talking to me and she still considers me to be her best friend and she wants to hang out with me alot. last week she told me she missed me and wants to move were im moving i dont know what she wants from me she told me if we had not found anyone else in a couple of years that we should get married. i need an answer from her ive asked her and she said she wants me to be her friend and she does not want a relationship with anyone right now but i love her and would do anything for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): Just give her some space, i am going through the exact same thing you are going through, me and her are now going through 4 years strong relationship/freindship, and the other day she said she doesnt want a relationship, i still love her and i know she will come around again and be herself once hsc/school and her personal issues are sorted. She told me i was her soulmate and that she loved me, I told her il marry her one day and she said she knows, but i just wish she didnt act distant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): I have tried cutting off all contact with her and telling her its hard to be in her life. But she always seems to come back to me and tell me her problems and wants me to help her with them and i always do. She says she really needs to be single and wants me to understand this. But says she can see her self with me one day just not now. But she still talks to other guys and says she might even go out on dates with other people. I told her i would wait for her. and she tells me i can do what i want. she tells me she cares for me alot and wants me in her life just dosent want to be in a relationship with me now. but all of her friends and even her family are telling her how great of a guy i was and they all thought i was the one to!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): I have tried cutting off all contact with her and telling her its hard to be in her life. But she always seems to come back to me and tell me her problems and wants me to help her with them and i always do. She says she really needs to be single and wants me to understand this. But says she can see her self with me one day just not now. But she still talks to other guys and says she might even go out on dates with other people. I told her i would wait for her. and she tells me i can do what i want. she tells me she cares for me alot and wants me in her life just dosent want to be in a relationship with me now. but all of her friends and even her family are telling her how great of a guy i was and they all thought i was the one to!
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