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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend goes off to university in september but im 2 years younger than him so im still at high school. Im the jealous type although i try not to be and im getting paranoid that he will go off to uni find another girl spend all his time with her and fall in love with her. I dont know what to do i find myself being mad at him which will just drive him away but i cant help it! He cant travel from home either because it would be so difficult and expensive. Any advice?
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (18 August 2008):
Anyone with two X chromosomes is the jealous type. I'm sorry to sound sexist but I am a woman, so this is coming from the horse's mouth.
You have to have trust in a relationship. Without trust, there's no relationship at all. Your fears and doubts are normal, but has he ever done anything to lose your trust? If there is true love, mutual love, then that will conquer all.
I've learned the hard way, that if you love someone and care about someone, tell it like it is. Tell him your fears and your worries, and he will listen and understand.
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