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writes:I have fallen for this guy at work, who is single. I think he like me and I thought he was quite shy, however, I have recently heard a few things about him, like he is a bit of a player, he can't be trusted etc. He has started talking to me on the odd occasion but when ever anyone one else is around he leaves the room or walks away, do you think he is interested and are relationships a good thing to start at work if you keep it outwith working hours.
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reader, quacks +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Quite simply.... NEVER HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE FROM WORK!!!.. You could be opening some real problems if things go wrong and it really isn't worth it.. Find a partner outside of work so if things go wrong you don't have to face each other every day
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reader, kenny +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Personally i don't think that office relationships are a good thing to get into. The problem is that when things are sweet then all's well and good. But when/if things turn sour things can get very arkward for you, for him, and for your co-workers. Its never easy having to see that person everyday after a break. Also it sounds like the others have got him summed up pretty well too, if they say he is a player then the likellhood is he probably is, i would be inclined to steer clear.
All the best x
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reader, les  +, writes (18 August 2008):
Depends how big the office is. From personal experience (not mine but from my old office) is the company is under a hundred people and you are in the department/have the same managers/work together on a regular basis or see each other - BAD idea.
Esp when he might be a player and can't be trusted.
Also, he might or might not be a nice guy, but I worked with a guy like this. He turned out to be a major jerk, if he talks to you occasionally or stops and leaves, i.e. does not have regular friendly conversations with you, he's just playing games and getting an ego boost.
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