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writes:Hi everyone, I have been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We are both 20 years old. Recently, I had to come back to my hometown for 3 months and I have been away from her. We have been writing to each other, chatting, and calling each other practically every day. She sounds very happy.So here's the deal. I called her just a few minutes ago and as we were talking she said she could not wait to see me again and sounded very happy. Then she said that she had to tell me something important in person. I said if you want you can just tell me through the phone. She said she would rather tell me in person. So I told her if she could at least tell me if it is good or bad? And she said it was bad. Then I said, well please tell me now before we meet no? And then she started crying hysterically telling me she loved me very much. I said it was ok, and that she could tell me when I see her in 3 days. If you have been kind enough to read that entire ramble, I was wondering if any girls or guys can offer advice as to what this "bad news" that cannot be said over the phone could be. I know there are a million possibilities, but I just want to brace myself for anything. Thank you all for any help. I really appreciate it. Reply to this Question
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (17 June 2014):
Roboaxe is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, update after several years, but after I arrived to the airport with my mom, she took me to my apartment first while my mom got a rental car and told me she had cheated on me (she slept with a co worker of hers 3 days before I arrived).
I proceeded to cry and experience some of the worst emotional pain I have ever had in my entire life, made all the more worse knowing my mom was going to walk in to my apartment in 10 minutes.
Anyhow, I broke up with her.
At least she wasn't pregnant.
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reader, aNnE_cUrBeAn  +, writes (24 August 2008):
she could be pregnant, just be patient and be ready...
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (19 August 2008):
Roboaxe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your responses, I appreciate them very much.
Today I called her again and she seemed fine. But after just a few moments of talking to me she started to once again cry. I told her that we would see each other soon so she could be happy. Then she said she cant be happy and kept crying. I calmed her down and told her she was the one who said she wanted to tell me whatever news it is in person, so she stopped crying after that. We said goodbye to each other and that we loved each other after a while.
Once again, thanks for everything, and please continue to post your thoughts. Thank you.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Roboaxe, I hope all is well for you...anything new on your situation to report?
Hannah xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): Perhaps someone she is close to is ill, or maybe she is. Be ready for anything. Also she could be pregnant, or on the other hand, infertile or something like that. Try to stay calm, maybe bring her something nice like flowers or chocolates to comfort her when you go to see her!
Keep us posted, hope thverything is ok!
hugs, xox
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (18 August 2008):
Hello,
Just taking up from Smiles....have you had unprotected sex recently or when you last saw her?? Hannah x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): You mentioned she sounded "happy" but then she started crying; could she be pregnant?
I suggest you should just be patient with her; she must have a very valid reason why she wants to talk to you in person rather then over the phone; I can understand that it must be very difficult for you; but if at all possible try not to worry about it to much; try not to think about it to much.
Force yourself to think about other things rather then to dwell on all the as you said yourself "million possibilities.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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