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*elpme122796
writes: i really like my best friends sheas boyfriend alec. but sheas brother brent really likes me .brent is really jelouse that i like alec.but i feel guilty because i made out with alec when shea was gone .and i dont know what to do. should i tell shea and ruin her and alecs relasionship or what?
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reader, wildcats21 +, writes (8 November 2008):
Okay...i know the exact situation that ur in! See my friend is dating one of the popular football players and they've been dating for eight weeks and have only made out once....but see with him being a jock he's used to making out with ppl all the time.....so one day after school (him and I are best friends) we were hanging out down at the park....later that night my sister, him, and I were all in the woods across from his house....my sister walked away for like a minute and she came back and we were making out. See but I have liked him since like fourth grade....so I see how ur feeling and I know that it's painful but give her time to think it over and like my friend did in a couple days she may forgive you....now as for the kid him and i don't talk anymore.
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reader, helpme122796 +, writes (20 August 2008):
helpme122796 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i luv him alot and it breaks my heart to see him with her
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reader, scofy +, writes (18 August 2008):
Don't tell her. You should have think first before doing anything. Tell the boy that what you've done is very wrong. Don't do it again for you will ruin your relationship with her. She will feel betrayed once she know about it.
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reader, xray2112 +, writes (18 August 2008):
It makes me wonder what kind of relationship your friend and Alec have if he is with you when she's away. You should have had respect for her relationship no matter how you feel about her boyfriend.
There are so many variables here and a host of possible outcomes, but I would say don't say anything to her and don't do it again! If he cheated on her with you, he'll cheat on her with someone else. Her boyfriend and her best friend would break her heart.He is out of bounds to you. Good luck.
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