A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:heyive been talking to this guy online for nearly a year nowme and him are really closewe know basically everything about each otherhe is 23 and im 16were really good friends, but he always tells me how much he wants to be with me and if me and him were lived closer, that we could have a relationship with each otheri have feelings for him too, i mean i really like him, hes the perfect guy for mebut yesterday he told me, that when he went a party he met this girl, and they ended up having sexi asked him if he thinks he will ever meet her again, and he said 'maybe, but it will just be fun'but after he said this to me, i felt kinda heartbroken and betrayedhe could tell i was upset to as i was on cam....so he said he was trying to make me feel betterbut when i asked him 'what is she like' he said 'fo u really want to know that, dont want u being upset' him saying this hurt me even more tho, as he never said like i was better looking than her or nicr than her....what he said made me think, he likes her more than me, and that she is better than me as he didnt want to make me upset...so what do u guys think?i know im being stupid about this, but it genuinley did hurt methanks x
View related questions:
heartbroken, sex with another Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (18 August 2008):
 You've been cast into the role of "the kid" in his script, and it will be a long time before you break out of that role, if you ever do. You started writing at 22 and 15, and I suspect that he's probably thought of you as pretty much "underage" all along.
He's a grown man who is apparently into casual sexual relationships with other women. You are still growing emotionally, and from what you say I don't think that you are quite ready to handle dealing with a guy like that on any level.
It looks like a heartbreak in the making. Right now, he's not worth it for you. I hate to say it, because it would be nice to be able to predict a happy future for you, but I just don't see how that's going to work out any time soon. You and he are too different and are coming from two radically different places.
Sad, but I really think your best bet would be to just forget about this guy entirely. I think that even trying to remain friends with him will ultimately prove to be too painful for you.
Good luck. And I hope you get somebody better matched to you soon.
A
female
reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Sweetie, you dont have a relationship with this guy.... he is just someone on the internet that will tell you anything you want to know! Rather try and have a relationship with a real-life person!!! Sorry about being so blunt...
Honeygirl
...............................
|
