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writes: Hi please help!!! I've grown close to one of my friends and I really like him but I'm not sure he likes me in the same way.He flirts with me all the time we'r around each other but when I told him how I felt [as in when his friend told him!] he was really shoked coz he joked around with me and I am one of the only friends [thats a girl] hes got so you'd think he'd like me more than a friend. So I got his no. of his friend [even though the guy I liked already asked for mine] and asked him if he liked me the same but all he said was that he thinks I'm "nice". Which where I come from is code for not girlfriend material. My friend said that he never stoped stareing at me and that hes just affraid to admit it. Is she rite? And if so what should I say to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow congratulations with the baby and ingagement! =] I have admitted that I like him but he has'nt said owt. =[ But thanks for the help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): sweetie the best thing to do in that situation is to pull ur friend aside and let him now how u really feel, dont keep it a secrete from him, i had a situation like that when i was in 7th grade my friend was really cute and sweet i finally told him how i feel now im 18 we are ingaged and have a baby on the way.... never be scared to go for what u want.. if he is the right guy for u he will be happy u came and told him how u felt... good luck baby girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx you really helped! ;-)
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reader, Modern Life  +, writes (18 August 2008):
I don't think you need to say anything to him. It could be that he doesn't want to look like he's interested to others that are around, it could be that he's afraid to admit it, it could be a lot of things. The point is, do you want to have to make him realise it - even if you get him to be your boyfriend, the chances are he'll keep being flakey about it. Find someone who's in no doubt that they want you as their girlfriend!When a boy really wants to be with you, you'll have to beat him off with a stick - he'll be phoning you, hanging around you all the time and generally making you feel like a princess. If you push it, you'll probably end up with people making all kinds of jokes about it and being miserable. Say nothing - if he wants you to be his girlfriend, he'll let you know (possibly when no-one else is around). So, I know it's hard but try waiting.
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