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writes: Hey I've been going out with my girl for 3 months,we have a wonderful relationship but like all we have our ups and downs..At some points I feel as if im not good enough for her She is basically anything a guy can ask for she's nice,smart,beautiful,succesfulAnd I feel as if im a bad boyfriend and I feel as if the love she had for me is fading away.......I want tips on how I can be a great boyfriendThank you very much for helping Reply to this Question
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (18 August 2008):
 You say that you feel like you're not good enough for her, but I think that you lack confidence. I'm definitely not saying that you should be cocky, but if you make yourself out to be inferior it turns people off. It could be that the lack of self-confidence is alienating her from you. Focus on what you can do to make her happy. It means so much to us girls to have someone who knows how to listen, and who understands feelings. When she talks about her feelings, look her in the eyes, and really focus on what she is saying. Imagine how you would feel if you were her, and ask questions. You may be a great listener, though... I don't know you so I can't say you're not. What I am saying is that this is a very important virtue in a boyfriend. Think about what it is you don't like about yourself, and what you do like. Think about what you could change about yourself, to make you more confident in yourself. Every relationship has ups and downs but that does not make you inferior.
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reader, loria  +, writes (18 August 2008):
Be yourself that should be enough
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reader, SweettieXXI  +, writes (18 August 2008):
Hi, I think you need to find out if there is something you are really doing wrong. Talk to her and if there is something you need to fix then do it, otherwise you might just spend ur time worrying over something that maybe doesnt even exist. I am telling you cause I usually do that, I make myself worry every time me and my bf have an argument or a misunderstanding thinking that he might get tired of me. Then I talk to him and I realize that our relationship is stronger than silly arguments....we all go through that....just make sure that you guys talk it out. Hope everything goes well.
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