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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have agreed to go on a date with a boy i dont even fancy, because ive started to become bi curious. I haven't had a boyfriend in about a year now, ive kissed boys while ive been out partying but nothing more in a year, and now im wondering if this is one of the reasons im bi curious?i don't particularly want to be, and i know my friends would be freaked out if they told them that im curious, so i don't know what else to do. I dont want to hurt this boy who has asked me out, and now hes constantly texting me and phoning me and becoming clingy; but i just don't want to get used to the idea about my sexuality. Any one got any advice please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): Bi curiosity is when your curios of BOTH sex’s.
There’s nothing wrong with it its normal at your age to want to experiment.
As for this boy your seeing let him down gently.
It’s hard to maintain a relationship with someone your not physically attracted to as sooner or later he’ll notice and be exremly hurt.
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reader, junebug +, writes (18 August 2008):
be yourself.do what u feel is right.if ur "friends" was ur true friends then they will not freak out.and the boy........if ur just going out with him just to go out with him and dont really like him then thats not gonna change ur mind.u need to date a boy u think is good looking and like then u can judge by that.ya know what i mean?its like u want to try a grapefruit andgoing and eating a orange when u dont even like oranges then judging a grapefruit bcuz it round like a orange.maybe i dont even make sense.anyways if u get it then u will understand and if u dont im sorry.good luck xoxojunebugxoxo
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