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*ynne1026
writes:My fiance is having trouble getting over the fact that 3 years ago when we broke up i had a one night stand, how can i help him get over it?
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reader, kenny  +, writes (18 August 2008):
 Well it is not like you went behind his back or was unfaithful to him, you had this one night stand after you had broken up. I think that all you can do is enphasise that this was purely a one off, a stupid mistake that will never ever happen again.
All the best x
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reader, ask paige +, writes (18 August 2008):
 well i think to a lot of people cheating is the worst possible thing that can happen in a good relationship and some people no matter how many times you apologize, he may never be able to "get over" your betrayle, and see you being with someone else everytime he looks at you. my advice is to keep trying to tell him you wold never do that to him again and believe yourself when you say it, if he cant trust you again YOU move on find someone else and never hurt them as your ex fiance seems to be hurting like good luck
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reader, scofy  +, writes (18 August 2008):
 You told her the detail of your one night stand stuff? better not. Tell her that your one night thing is meaningless. Whatever your reasons, just assure her that you more love her than anyone else.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 August 2008):
I don't think you can. If you were broken up then really it is his problem. The more you talk about it the more he will think about it.
You basically need to tell him to get his head straight as it is causing your relationship problems and you don't want him to be holding this over you when you are in your 40's.
Good Luck!! xx
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