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I can't read the body language in my girlfriend!

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Question - (18 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2008)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

how can i know whether my girl friend is thinking sexual thoughts? I can read the body language in other girls, but my girl friend fluctuates.

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (19 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntGiving her full love doesn't mean you have to give her sex. Sorry to say this to you, but that kind of mentality is mostly true in girls.

Like some pointed out, guys have sex in mind earlier than girls. The only reason most girls have sex so early (at your age) is because of the social pressure on them (from both boyfriends and co-eds). They confuse it as a sign of love, sadly.

So if you really want to give her your full love, show it by other physical means. Tell her she's beautiful and make her FEEL it. Don't oogle at other girls lustfully nor treat her like crap. Always respect HER and HER BODY. Always be honest with her and have some tact while doing it. Also, don't cheat on her in any way.

That's how you show someone your full love, not through sexual stuff.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008):

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its just that ive grown to love her so much that i want to give her my full love

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A female reader, shandygirl United States +, writes (18 August 2008):

shandygirl agony auntWhen I was your age, sex was the furthest thing from my mind. When I liked a boy, it was emotions, not sex that engulfed me. Boys think about sex at an early age, girls don't.

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