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*tella19
writes:I'm confused my boyfriend was living with me we had just gotten back together and this past week he went to stay at his sisters while she was away and watch his nephew. Well since he's left he's hardly called only late at night and is kind of iffy if I want to make plans.and hasn't invited me over he's only 5 mins away. I feel like somethings not right. The last couple days leading up to him going he didn't want to have sex with me. Completly out of the ordinary. My gut tells me somethings up but I don't want to act on anything and make a fool of myself. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, chloe71z +, writes (18 August 2008):
 If its only five minuits away jsut go over there and help him he is probley so tied up with playing fill in parent he dont think about anything else until the kids in bed.
take some games over there that you know the kid might like.
let him know that your there for him and can give him a break so he could take a nap or something. He will appreciate it in the long run. But dont let him leave you there with the kid. the child is still his responsablity to watch.
Take care Good luck
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (18 August 2008):
 There may be something going on there, but it could be that your boyfriend is getting a bad case of "loco parentis". He's functioning as a child's parent, and perhaps the reality of the responsibilities of parenthood are giving him a new perspective on what it means to be in a sexual relationship. Stay cool for now, and wait to see what happens after his stint as the babysitting uncle is over. If he is still distant after that, talk it over with him and see what's going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): Listen to your gut...God gave it to us for a reason, and you NEED to listen to it...It will hardly ever let you down. Best of luck Sweet Pea!1
~~The GabberJack
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