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writes:I've been talking to this guy for over a year and a half. Before we started talking...we were friends. We're not exclusive yet and I think it's because I'm not the one he feels he can open up to. He's always been this way, even to close friends and family. We're able to have good conversation and he knows in his gut that he can trust me...but when he gets stressed out, he doesn't want to talk to me or see me (or anyone for that matter) I've been patient with him and I probably will always be patient with him...but it makes me feel bad when I'm not the one he can open up to. What should I do or say? Cause I want us to be an official couple (cause my feelings are growing and he is it for me!) but we can't until something changes. Otherwise...should we just maintain as friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, estanie +, writes (30 August 2008):
estanie is verified as being by the original poster of the question He says he definitely wants to be more then friends but likes us to maintain our friendship in our relationship. I just can't get this guy to talk to me or see me if he's stressed out. It's making me feel like I'm not the one he could fall in love for...I don't know what to do with him but I have been very patient with him and I can't take it anymore. I fell in love with him but I know he doesn't feel the same...and I want to be that everything for him but I can't if he doesn't talk to me. What should I do?
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reader, junebug +, writes (18 August 2008):
i have been with my b/f for 3 yrs and around our 2 year ann his grangfather passed away and he will not talk and open up to me.anything else he can but and just yesterday he started opening up to me.it takes some ppl time to really trust and open up.yea he probly trust u but wants to make sure.or maybe u guys are better off just being best friends.did u ever talk 2 him and let him know that no matter what u guys are always gonna be friends?maybe thats y.idk.good luck xoxojunebugxoxo
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