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writes:Okay well im 15, and the guy i like (he's 18) i'v known all my life and weve always been veryvery close. He doesnt know i like him as more than a friend as i know it wouldnt work, and i would never do anything to ruien our friendship. He has been the one person i tell everything to, apart from this.anyway we went away with running, and close to the end of the week i got really tired and worn out, so he came over to comfort me and we cuddled up for a bit. In the end we both fell asleep together (nothing happend). But some people took it the wrong way, and im not sure what to think, as i dont want people to think he was taking advantage of me, as i know he deff wasnt, but im soo confused, was it really that wrong, i mean nothing hapened. And i know i like his as more but still.please help ! x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): People always want to believe the worst in a situation like that... You will learn that as you grow up. So what if they think the wrong thing of you - you kno the truth and that nothing happened with him. So you have nothing to be ashamed of...
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reader, rcn  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 You're going to find as you get older. It isn't how you live, it's how people interpret how you live. We all judge. I work hard not too, but we have to admit it happens. If you see someone, dressed in leather from head to tow, ear rings, spikes, long hair. What would your initial reaction be. And what would your perception of who he is be?
We perceive what we see, and sometimes it's wrong, but it still happens. If I heard your story without your ending, I would think too, they did something they weren't suppose to. People tend to think opportunity means it happened. All though you know different, it's hard to change the way people view things. I will tell you what will protect you in the future. You're character, your ethics and your moral behavior. Build yourself to be strong, untouched beliefs. Don't change what you believe because others change. Stick with one way of being you. This will develop you to the level that if this happened again, people who know you would automatically know you didn't do anything, because it would be against your character and who you are to do so.
By the way the person I described at the top, was me 20 years ago. Just because I looked a certain way, it doesn't describe who I really am.
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