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30-35,
*majayne
writes: I have a bit of an embarasing question. I don't know if i've ever had an orgasm. My ex would always say "i think you just had an orgasm" but the truth is i don't even know what one is supposed to feel like. Am i supposed to feel something really huge? cause i never have. It felt like it was building up like some massive pressure and it got really uncomfortable so i said to stop. Please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Everyone is different and many women go through many sexual partners and experiences before they have a real orgasm. It sounds to me like you were building up to one. At the point where it gets uncomfortable you should relax and let the feeling ride over you.
I doubt that your ex would have known that he had made you orgasm, he probably just liked to think he did.
Don't worry yourself about it, I thought that id had orgasms with my previous boyfriends but when I had a real orgasm with my current partner, I knew that what Id felt before was probably just been horny, ha! when you do have an orgasm you will know.
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reader, suchislife32 +, writes (26 September 2007):
Trust me unfortunatly you have not had an orgasm. You will know for certain when you do. Having an orgasm is unmistakeble.
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