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36-40,
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writes:my best friend is a guy, and he has previously been out with 2 of my friends. in between both of these relationships, we became very close and ended up sleeping together. i felt really guilty, we talked and agreed not to tell anyone. years on, still really close, he always comes over to my house, and we always end up sleeping together. i really like him and have tried to ignore these feelings, but they have gone on too long, i dont know what to do, i feel guilty, and confused. he might just want casual sex, and if i tell him i might lose him as a friend... what shall i do?
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reader, Ms.Sweet dreams  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 well don't be hesitate to ask him if he has feelings for u. it's ur right to ask him coz the value of girls are very important and women need a respect. as u tell to ur story that his been with ur 2friend. i guess the girl that u introduce to him is just his past time but i feel like both of u are start to be develop and do u believe that bestfriend can be a lover so its just near in ur story. his just afraid to tell u that he loves u. why he wants to have sex with u if he dont want u. well talk to each other and u will find out that he do loves u. cheers!!!
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (25 September 2007):
 it seems he defo wants just casual sex, and it appears you want more so the first thing to do is stop haveing sex with him completely. if you want your friendship to work, you can't have any sexual relations at all, especially when you feel your becoming attracted to him more than a friend.
you need to tell him the sex has to stop because you don't want to loose your friendship and however hard he tries to talk you round (he will) you need to be firm and stand by your decision because it's the only way to not loose him.
best of luck
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