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writes:Hi, i asked my friend for advice, but all she told me to be careful of him... so here goes.i met this guy a few months and i'll admit this, i didn't take him seriously at all. he's a huge flirt, would flirt with anyone, really. so i just thought 'pfft, ladies man'. the thing is, though, as i got to know him a lot more he seems pretty alright.. he even told me that he liked me in a text and that. its weird though because i'm not sure whether its for real. yeah, he meets me outside my school and even looked after me when we were getting drunk together, but its like hes so POPULAR with other lasses and its like well, am i one of those lasses or am i for real? heres another thing why i'm not so sure of him... on saturday night he rang me up and told me he was coming down and only wanted to come just to see me from the party he has been to. i thought, oh, great! so while i waited for him, i was with one of his mates, and out of curosity, i asked, does he actually like me then. he told me that he really did like me, and i was like oh! what does he say about me. and the reply i got? well, he's always talking about banging the shit out of you everything. and then i heard more, and he told me that he was going to get laid at the party... and then try to get laid by me! i was skeptial about it, but later on when when one of his other mates was messing about, and he pulled out two comdoms out of his bag he was carrying all the beer in... and apprently he didn't sleep with the girl at the party... nor did he with me either.I just need to know, should i stop wasting my time with him or try to see how it goes before jumping straight to conclusions first? Lol, sorry for making this long, btw!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Hi there
Guys will be guys and their friends will always say stuff just to make them out to me macho guys!!! Also why didn't he invite you to the party he went to?!?!?
If he likes you a lot, let him do all the running and chasing after you. Don't make yourself too available to him. Make him come to your house,
If that doesn't work, say good bye, walk away with your head held high and dignity intact!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): im 39 years old and ive been around the block a few times, ive seen that situation alot, and id say untill hes serious about how he feels about you and shows it like a gentleman, i wouldnt waste my time, theres other guys that will come along that will treat you like a lady, not playing games like a child.
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