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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i have never had my g-spot played with and i have never cum is this normall i am 24 years old and have 4 children. my new partner thinks its his fault please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Hi Love,
Its sometimes really hard for a woman to have an orgasm by sex alone every woman is different your g-spot is in and up a little but that me not you, Clitoral stimulation love have you and your fella tryed this together, it can be very pleasing to both HOPE THIS HELPS LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): I was with my (then) boyfriend 3 years before he gave me an orgasm, and that was my first that someone else had given me (I'd had 2 partners before that). So I know how you feel!
It sounds like you guys haven't taken the time to get to know the ins and outs of female anatomy, and not taken the time to really explore.
That's the best bit of a relationship, exploring each others bodies and finding out what they like.
I have to ask - have you ever given yourself an orgasm? It will really help your partner if you know what youlike and what makes you hot!
It is very rare for a female to orgasm only through sex. I find that if myself or my boyfriend plays with my clit suring sex, well, lets just say it's amazing!
I;m sure it's difficult havig free time with children but maybe you should plan a night for the kids to go to grannies and you can have a night n exploring each others bodies! Tell him what you want, men love that. It takes the worry out of them thinking you might not like what they are doing etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Is this because you don't know where it is or because he can't find it? If you do, and he can't - show him or tell him when he hits it.
If neither of you know where it is - it's about 1" inside the front wall of the vagina, behind your pubes if you like.
Apparently there's a lot of women that don't orgasm, so it would seem you're not on your own here. I suppose if you've had 4 kids and stitches as well there might be some damage in that area. I expect the Aunts will give a clearer picture from the female point of view.
Phil
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