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writes: Am I being paranoid? I asked my boyfriend if an arguement we had a while ago is affecting us, he said no, it is dealt with etc...things are really good between us but that makes me even more suspicious I mean what if he is acting nice so he can fool me just to do something mean to me? Like get revenge for the row we had? We were both drunk and I remember most of the conversation but because I can't remember it word for word, now I'm panicking.Writing this I know how ridiculous I sound but I can't shake the feeling that I'm missing something, he's a really good guy, real blunt and to the point most of the time, has said that if he was unhappy in this relationship he would tell me...he says he loves me and has begged me never to change... but I've always been a very untrusting person. I mean are there any tell-tale signs that someone is not telling you something? Something in their behavior?God knows I love him, I'm just afraid he'll drop a bombshell on me sooner or later, I have worried for absolutely no reason for hours before about things and it's got to the point where I cannot tell if I have true cause for concern or not...Please help...
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reader, Blooregard +, writes (26 September 2007):
Blooregard is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I've forced myself not to bring it up and things seem to be going good, thanks for helping me see some logic :)
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (25 September 2007):
 It's been my experience that most men are not that vindictive and subverse. I think if he was still pissed off, you'd know it. Men don't usually play those games. I think whatever you said during the argument is eating at you because you know you were drunk and don't remember some of it, and you probably know you said things you didn't really mean. If I were you, I'd dismiss these thoughts for now. If he's acting like everything is fine, it probably is. Women tend to over-analyze things and talk ourselves into our worst paranoias. Just chill out and take things one day at a time. Be kind, be sweet, and you'll start feeling better soon.
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