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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay here's my situation - I had a liking for my mates ex a couple of months after they broke up and she liked me(he broke it off twice with her). This was so unexpected coz i didnt see this coming and i never looked at her that way before, especially when my mate and her were an item. So as soon as i knew that we really liked eachother we confronted my mate and he didnt take all to well and distanced himself from me to the point where he doesn't communicate to me anymore. We continued seeing eachother and everything made sense and seemed it was goin well. It lasted for afew months and she decided she wanted a friendship, mainly because she knew where it was heading, heading towards 'relationshipville'. I was cut and at the same time was understanding cause coming out of a 5 year relationship is friggin long from a friends point of view since we started off as friends. She said i was everything she wanted in a guy and is jus not ready for anything, and jus wanted to not be attached with me or anyone right now...so we are still friends although i find it hard to realise that liking her still will get me nowhere, and i find it hard when i'm hangin out with her and her friends. On top of that my mate/her ex is slowly comin back in the group which mad me realise i couldnt take it anymore, i felt i was in a very uncomfortable position - I recently decided i needed space from her and she pleading to consider friendship....hopefully as time goes things will turn out, so im currently doing 'me time'....what should i do??
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (27 September 2007):
She doesn't want you for a bf. She does want for a friend. And, she still has feeling for your mate. Stand by as her friend and see how things develope.
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