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writes: If a man tells a lady he loves her in just 6 weeks of dating is he in love or is it just lust? If the new Gf blocks you from emailing him she must be insecure about him.What's your thoughts?The email was about a sick family member and she went balisic.Had nothing to do with him and I.
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reader, Star_07  +, writes (17 December 2007):
 I think it can go either way as far as love versus lust. Most of the time it is lust but there are situations where you really do love someone or fall in love with someone in a very short period of time. It all depends!
I think her blocking you from his email shows that she is insecure. I can understand her being intimidated by you and your friendship with him but I think that when you care about someone you try to be very understanding and it would be to her benefit to know what this friendship is about rather than ignore it.
I dont think it is up to her to block you by the way. It would be one thing if you were trying to keep in touch with him in the hopes of getting back with him but being his friend and wanting to reach out to him when something happens in your life is another story. If I were you, I would talk to him and see what he thinks. Should you keep your distance? You dont want to infringe on their relationship and if its going to cause more problems then it might be best to stay away. If he wants you around then it will be up to him to talk to her and explain the situation. Have you met her personally? Sometimes getting to know someone eases any anxiety she might feel.
Talk to him about it and see what he thinks is best. If she cant accept you as his friend then its not worth the trouble of trying to remain friends (or at least for now). I say this because true friends outlast romantic relationships in most cases.
Hope this helps!
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