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writes:Hey all, i've been with my boyfriend for over 2years. He has always been allowed to stay in my bedroom with me on the weekends(and has many times). However lately he doesnt want to stay with me at all. He says it's because i only have a single bed and he can't have a good sleep. Im so hurt by this. Its not like i want him to stay every night, just on a saturday!!!I would glady sleep on a bed of nails just to be with him!! I dont think this is just about the comfort thing...im taking this reelly bad. Im feeling totally rejected and hurt. He obviously doent feel for me what i feel for him. He must have no desire to be with me or around me. I have confronted him and he says he didnt mean it to sound bad...but what other way could he have meant it. I just feel really at an all time low because of this.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (17 December 2007):
I must also say that you shouldn't make a great meal out of this but try to understand your boyfriend.I also would find the courage to tell you if the bed was uncofortable.Don't take it really personal but find a solution like buying a new bed or maybe sleeping out on weekends in a nice motel.If he still compains then you would have to get suspicious.On the other hand,it could be that he doesn't wana have sex as much as you do and hence avoids your bed.Talk to him.
Good luck.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Its quite possible that he meant just what he said, that he can't get a good nights sleep in a single bed. Te be honest it must be quite a squeeze for you both, espessially if you want to turn over. I really don't think its anything to do with you, as he said he did not mean it to sound bad. I don't know how big your room is, but is there any chance you could get a double bed for you both.
All the best x
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reader, starfairy +, writes (16 December 2007):
 I can identify with your boyfriend...I have to have plenty of room in bed to get a good nights sleep or else I;m pretty grumpy!! The initial novelty wears off of being able to sleep in the same bed sooner for others I guess, I sincerely doubt this has any reflection on your boyfriends feelings for you, he is simply moving onto the next phase of your relationsip, like when the lust fades after 6 or so months...I wouldn't worry.
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