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anonymous
writes:my husband has not had a job in one year. he always have an attitude and he seems jealous that i have a job and i've been on my job for ten years. i really am tired of his attitude and him not working. i dont want to be with him anymore. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Counseling...people look at relationships as disposable. Do you have kids? If so, then that's a huge reason not to jump ship without trying to work through it first. Marriage is a commitment. Not just about the good times. IF you can work together through the tough times, you might have something better than you ever imagined. Something way better than if you just walked away. Starting over with someone else just gives you the high of the newness. And when that wears off?
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (16 December 2007):
 This is a very short paragraph for a major life event - four lines!!
Children? You don't say why he hasn't been working? Deprived area? Medical condition? Self-esteem problems?
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 just leave him! tell him what you feel.... nothing can stop you.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Leave him/kick him out! Sounds like you're at that stage where you're not going to be hesitant about it. You sound independant and strong enough. Enough is enough and you want him gone, end of!
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (16 December 2007):
 If you really don't want to be with him anymore then i feel your only option here is to be upfront and honest and tell him that you no longer want to be with him anymore. I would tell him sooner rather than later, the longer you let this go on the harder it will get. Once you have told him you will feel better in yourself, for you will know it was the right thing to do.
All the best & good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): I can't think of much to say here, except that if you don't want to be with him any more why are you still with him? The ball is in your court - if you want to leave him just do it. What's stopping you?
Phil
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