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*olostick23
writes:So my girlfriend started giving me oral in the car, and it was my first time. I didn't cum in her mouth, because although it felt good, i just didn't orgasm. And the same thing happened again later. What do I do? I don't want to make her feel like she's not worth anything to me because i really care for her.
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (16 December 2007):
 I know how you feel, because I'm not fast on the draw and come that quickly either. Actually you should take this as a blessing, because some girls get upset if you come too quickly. The longer you keep your boner hard the better...but of course this means quickies can be a problem when it comes to coming fast. So deal with it.
Another thing is maybe she's not so experienced either. She has to change her technique, and only you can lead her to the right way to get you off. Moan louder when she's doing something right. Encourage her as she goes. maybe you want her to qucken her pace, or increase the pressure some way. When you do oral on her, she'll tell you what feels good too. So communication is very important.
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reader, polostick23 +, writes (16 December 2007):
polostick23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe was down on me for a good 10-15 min.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): try
1. reciprocating because that can turn some guys on and make it hotter when she gives you head in return.
2. how long did she go down on you for because it may not have been long enough for you to orgasm
3. discuss different "techinques" she could try, only you know what turns you on best
as for not making her feel that shes not worth anything to you... tell her that she does mean a lot to you... not while she is giving you or about to give you oral, as she may think you are only saying it to get off. be romantic
good luckkk
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