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writes:I fell in love with this guy in the beginning of the year. We dated but broke up. He believed that I wasn't faithful. Recently we started talking again and my love for him grew. He told me that he had been single for over a month and asked if I would like to hook up again and see how things go if we take it slow. I said yes and we've been talking for the last 6 days and during that time my feelings have grown stronger. My boyfriend and I have become distant but then again that would also be because he went out with another girl while I was away for the weekend. He told me the day after i got back but only after I read a message, that he sent, on his phone (he allowed me to go through them) saying and i quote "Oh no darling. You're the adorable and sweetest girl I've ever met."About 3 days ago my ex (the guy I've been talking to for 6 days) started fighting with me because he heard I had a boyfriend (even after I told him, but he refused to listen). He said that I had betrayed him. I was devestated. Today a girl phoned me and told me that I must leave her boyfriend alone or she is gonna come after me.. I'm really hurt.. more than ever... Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe was referring to my ex. My boyfriend and I broke up last night so now I'm completely single. Thanks for the advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): It sounds to me that you both in the wrong. You should have told your ex from the start (even before you gave him a second chance that you are dating somebody new). And you should have talked to your bf and explained exatly how you feel bout the whole thing.
It is also a chance that he might have gone to this other girl cos he did not like the way you treated him. Men are different and can at the slightest little thing fel that you don't care bout him and that could be why he went to this other girl.
And you should be careful with your ex if he did not trust you then its highly unlikely that he will trust you now. You have to try think wat you could have done to prevent your relationships going this way and learn from them.
Good luck
Hope this helps you a little.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Which boy was the girl referring to? Does your current boy friend have a girl friend on the side or is your ex playing you and another girl at the same time?
A good idea is to dump them both. You don't need a guy who cheats on you on the weekend or one who won't trust you. Pick up a hobby and/or a good big book and dump both boys.
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