A
female
age
,
*arlene
writes:have been dating a guy for 6 months i fell in love with him.he says he loves me but we hardly spend anytime together or even talk.i feel like i am being used by him but don't know what i should do i love him.so should i listen to my heart or my mind telling me to let him go.
View related questions:
fell in love Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, starfairy  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 If your head is telling you to let him go, it's probably right. Your gut instinct is generally spot on.
It doesn't sound like you are getting much out of the relationship anyway, you want someone who's going to treat you like a princess :o)
A
female
reader, Cyg79 +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Sometimes I think our mind tells us what our heart can not see. Look at what you want in a relationship, if your not getting what you want and expect from a relationship then you that needs to be addressed. You can discuses with him how you feel and what you need done to feel as if the relationship is going both ways. If you need to spend time and talk then you need to let him know these things and something needs to be done. Relationships are a two way street, i would say talk about your feeling and then if things don't get better then you need to think about what you can do to get what you want out of life. If that picture does not included him then thats how it is.
Be strong, and believe in your self.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): Why don't you spend time together? If you love each other you make time.if it's him who can't make time then maybe he has someone else.Get rid of him.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): Communication and time are keys to a relationship. If you guys can't communicate and you never see each other, you should chalk it up as a 'fun, but I should move on,' sort of situation. You can't base a relationship on nothing, and that's what it seems like you're getting here.
Also, your 'head'/instincts is/are a very strong tool, you should pay attention to it/them! :)
...............................
|
